90 Day Fiancé S11E17: Aliyah & Shawn’s Wedding Disaster, Prenup Chaos, and David’s Family Shake-Up – Full Drama Breakdown

The wedding of 90 Day Fiancé stars Aliyah De Batista and Shawn Finch was meant to be a picture-perfect celebration of love and triumph over adversity. Instead, it became one of the most cringe-worthy and emotionally catastrophic ceremonies in franchise history. What began as a carefully orchestrated dream wedding in sunny California, attended by friends, family, and even Shawn’s loyal dog Maxwell, descended into an agonizing affair marked by delays, insults, and visible heartbreak. Aliyah showed up nearly two hours late, leaving Shawn and their guests baking in the 100-degree heat. By the time she finally walked in, radiant but tragically tardy, Shawn was seething. His fury boiled over into a combative attitude, threatening to cancel the ceremony altogether. Even as they finally exchanged vows in a rushed, mechanical ceremony, Shawn’s resentment tainted the moment. When a guest sarcastically commented on the brevity of the vows, Shawn’s biting response — “Welcome to citizenship” — stunned the crowd. For a couple that had overcome age gaps, long-distance tension, and gender affirmation struggles, the implosion of their big day was a painful reminder that some wounds run too deep.

Making matters worse was a heartbreaking incident involving Shawn’s mother, Jean. Just before the ceremony, Jean fell and injured her ankle and hip. Despite her pain, she refused to leave for the hospital, determined to witness her son’s big day. But as she sat in the front row, leg propped up, visibly suffering, the emotional weight of Aliyah’s delay grew heavier. Jean had embraced Aliyah as part of the family, offering maternal warmth and support throughout the couple’s journey. Aliyah’s disregard for punctuality was interpreted by many guests as disrespectful, not only to Shawn but to Jean’s sacrifice and support. Shawn’s anxiety and rage intensified with every passing minute — a reflection of both the physical strain his mother endured and the emotional betrayal he felt. The reception didn’t improve things. During his toast, Shawn delivered a stinging remark: “Aliyah, thanks for coming, too — finally.” The air was thick with tension, and it was clear this wasn’t just a wedding gone wrong — it was a relationship at a crossroads.

While fans were still reeling from the Finch wedding debacle, another couple on Season 11 of 90 Day Fiancé ignited controversy of a different kind. Sarper Govven and Shakina Garner’s romantic arc took a shocking turn when the subject of a prenup came up. At a dinner with Shakina’s friends, Sarper expressed outright disdain at the very idea, calling prenups “rude,” especially when requested by a woman. The tension escalated dramatically when, in response to Shakina’s suggestion that a prenup might be wise, Sarper proposed a clause that left everyone speechless: a monthly weigh-in with a $1,000 fine for every pound Shakina gained over a 128-pound limit. The sheer audacity of the demand shocked her friends, but what disturbed fans even more was Shakina’s reaction — or lack thereof. Instead of storming out, she seemed resigned, even acknowledging that Sarper had tried to control her weight from the very beginning. In a confessional, she speculated that the demand was just his way of punishing her for suggesting a prenup. Their argument revealed a relationship plagued by manipulation, insecurity, and unresolved power struggles — far from the romantic ideal the show often promises.

And just when fans thought Season 11 couldn’t deliver more twists, longtime fan favorites David Toborowsky and Annie Suwan reemerged with life-altering news of their own. After years of navigating cultural differences, financial woes, and fertility struggles, the couple finally welcomed their daughter Minther in Thailand in March 2025. The joyous milestone marked a new chapter, but also a major relocation. David left the comfort of his U.S. life behind to support Annie through her pregnancy near her family. While David appeared to be thriving in Thailand, fans speculated whether this move was permanent — especially as David began selling off his property there. Then came another bombshell: Annie’s mother had obtained her green card and was preparing to join them in Arizona. This strongly indicated that the couple’s Thailand stay was temporary and that a return to the U.S. was imminent. For fans invested in their fairytale, the move signaled a hopeful new beginning — though some worry that David stepping away from the franchise could jeopardize their popularity and brand.

David and Annie’s story stands in stark contrast to the emotional implosion of Shawn and Aliyah or the toxic power dynamics between Sarper and Shakina. Their journey has always been one of steady growth, personal transformation, and mutual respect. From water buffalo dowries to IVF triumphs, they’ve faced each twist with humor and heart. Now, with baby Minther in tow and Annie’s mother joining them in the States, the couple seems poised to reclaim a peaceful domestic life — though fans hope it won’t be at the cost of their place in the 90 Day Fiancé universe. Meanwhile, David’s recent reconciliation with his other children and excitement over his son’s upcoming wedding hints at a man finally finding balance between love, legacy, and fatherhood. The emotional maturity and stability David and Annie now represent are a refreshing contrast to the drama-ridden relationships elsewhere in the franchise — a reminder that real love can survive long after the cameras stop rolling.

As Season 11 unfolds, the fates of these three couples offer wildly different visions of love under pressure. Shawn and Aliyah’s wedding was a flaming wreck of unmet expectations and simmering resentment. Sarper and Shakina’s relationship teeters on the edge of control and defiance, with weight clauses and cultural battles dominating the conversation. And David and Annie — while quietly preparing to exit stage left — have become a symbol of growth and resilience. Whether it’s through explosive weddings, shocking prenup demands, or sweet moments of familial peace, 90 Day Fiancé continues to deliver drama, heartbreak, and the occasional glimpse of genuine love. As the season continues, fans are left asking: which couples are strong enough to survive the reality of reality TV — and which are already doomed?