Kimberly & Usman’s Explosive Fallout: From Love, Lies, and Loss to London, Lyrics, and a Possible New Flame
After years of reality TV romance, drama, and disappointment, the saga of Kimberly Menzies and Usman “Sojaboy” Umar seems to have reached its final chapter—though the story isn’t quite over. The 90 Day Fiancé fan-favorites turned heartbreak veterans have once again stirred the pot with fresh revelations on 90 Day Diaries, spilling the real reasons for their split, navigating personal tragedy, and teasing shocking new developments. With Kim embracing a new outlook and Usman pushing his music harder than ever—while allegedly chasing clout and maybe even new romance—there’s plenty to unpack. This isn’t just a breakup recap; this is a deep dive into the unraveling of a relationship that once seemed destined for international chaos.
Kim’s journey over the past year has been nothing short of an emotional marathon. Reeling from a breakup with Usman, Kim suffered devastating personal losses—the deaths of her mother and sister—while also undergoing surgery for uterine fibroids and polyps. During this period, her absence from social media fueled alarming rumors, including a false report that she’d had a heart attack. When she finally resurfaced, Kim confirmed the real reason for her silence and publicly called out the cruel speculation. At the same time, her son Jamal—her emotional rock—dropped the bombshell that he planned to move away from San Diego, leaving Kim grappling with emotional independence after a year defined by loss and recovery. In a tearful episode, Kim admitted, “It makes me sad… it’s going to take me a minute to process that.” But rather than spiral, Kim found strength. From impressive weight loss to reclaiming her self-worth at 55, she now declares she’s living her best life and finally embracing her authentic self.
But with healing came reflection—and with reflection came a scathing reevaluation of her relationship with Usman. Kim has since labeled their dynamic as “toxic and one-sided,” accusing Usman of emotional manipulation and self-serving motives. “The mind games blew me away,” she admitted. She now says she was the one giving all the affection, all the gifts, while Usman acted like he was the one making sacrifices. “It was just way too many sacrifices I was making,” she shared. Though Kim previously admitted they remained in touch post-breakup, she now insists she’s cut Usman off completely. “It’ll never stop unless I put a stop to it,” she said—suggesting the relationship had to be forcefully closed. Still, there’s a lingering contradiction: Kim continues to keep contact with his family, texting with his brothers. While she claims it’s innocent, critics argue that staying in touch with Usman’s inner circle means he’s still indirectly in her life—and possibly in her heart.
Meanwhile, Usman has been busy crafting his own version of the post-breakup glow-up, centered not on introspection, but self-promotion. He proudly flaunted the construction of a new dream home—symbolizing success, independence, and yes, perhaps a staging ground for his next storyline. “I finally built my dream home,” he says. “Now I just need my beautiful wife and beautiful kids to fill it.” But don’t mistake this declaration for vulnerability. Instead, Usman’s romantic aspirations appear more like a marketing ploy. On 90 Day Diaries, he pitched the idea of writing a new song—Dream Girl—as a way to find a wife. His manager didn’t miss a beat: “Promote while the iron is hot.” Usman’s Instagram has since been flooded with Dream Girl promos, including a glossy video shot in London, where he’s spent significant time. Despite his self-declared title as an “international superstar,” a quick reality check reveals his Spotify stats: just 7,585 monthly listeners—far from global fame. Critics were quick to dismiss the hype as more illusion than influence.
If you thought the drama ended there, think again. As rumors swirl online, it’s been speculated that Usman’s appearance on the new TLC dating show Hunt for Love brings even more chaos. Allegedly, he hooks up with fellow castmate Courtney, only to be dumped—for Colt Johnson. Yes, that Colt Johnson. This jaw-dropping twist, while unconfirmed, has fans spinning. It’s the kind of TV crossover chaos only 90 Day could deliver. Meanwhile, Kim—despite her firm stance on dating age-appropriate men—has reportedly rekindled a romance with “Bee,” an ex-boyfriend from before her Usman days. Described as fun, flirty, and a little younger than she’d prefer, Bee has already appeared on-screen with her during a lighthearted bowling date. Kim even posted a “soft launch” of a mystery man on Instagram—same watch, same bag, same vibe. It’s almost definitely Bee. So while she preaches about learning her lessons, love’s old habits may die hard.
In the end, Kimberly and Usman’s story is one of two very different reinventions. Kim is the phoenix rising from the ashes—hurt, but healing, slowly learning to love herself more than the man who didn’t. Usman is the showman, spinning heartbreak into headlines, using the stage as his sanctuary and the screen as his spotlight. Whether their paths cross again on camera or in DMs, one thing is certain: their story isn’t just about what happened—it’s about how far each of them is willing to go to control the narrative. And with Hunt for Love around the corner, it looks like the next chapter may be even messier than the last.
